Understanding what women want

So annoying when a woman has a lover who is not sensitive to what is really desired by women. Probably because most of men prefer something simple and not too concerned about anything in detail. This is very different from the thinking of woman who wants everything perfect.
Then how to know what women want?
These are some tips that can help men know what is desired by women ..

1. listen to him
Indeed, listening to her talk at length it is very unpleasant, especially for a man. But do you know? For women, her talk be heard by their lover was very pleasing to her, especially if her partner were responding to her talk well, it would be to make her happy.
 

2. yes or no
Something funny from a woman is when she spoke not, but in fact she spoke yes, and otherwise. This is something that may be confusing to a man because men sometimes to understand what kind of woman saying she was saying, but it's the opposite of woman desire. For this, try to understand the situation and you need to better understand your lover, so it does not happen a mistake.
 

3. say I love you
Men usually prefer deeds than in words, so that their feelings were more they show by deeds and they think this is enough, whereas for women, a dear greeting is meaningful. This is true, because it is the easiest way show our feelings than just with an act.
 

4. give more attention
Feels incomplete if we establish our relationship but the lover never asked how we, what are we doing, had eaten or not, and trivial things like that. Although sometimes we think it's something trivial, but do you know how our lover's feelings when we notice it always? Yes, of course they are very pleased with our attention, as we are very concerned with anything related to it.
 

5. take some time for her
The way to spend time with her is like  ask her out. Well,, ask her out? She will going shopping, It will spend my money, but do not always think like that. asked to out by a lover is very pleasant for women. When a walk and invited to eat or buy ice cream can make a beautiful memory for women, because for women, men do not have to buy something expensive for him, but enough for him to just take some time to meet outside of it made her think that her partner is very affectionate and wants to always spend time with her.

With these tips, I think it can make you and your lover to be harmonious. Good luck and hopefully useful.

Beware Scamer Online on The Social Networking

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Yesterday, I got a message from someone on my social networking accounts, MyPage5. She asked me to send her an email via yahoo account. I'm curious, so I did it. Shortly thereafter I received  a reply from her, the contents of the reply is like this..

Hello my dear ,
I write to you with love , care and trust ,

How are you today ? . I hope that you are doing well with all your family and friends . I am very happy to receive your reply , thanks so much for finding time to reply my mail . It gives me a lot of joy and happiness to receive your reply .

My name is Miss Vivian Dukson Weah , i am a Liberian in West Africa and presently i am residing in a church orphanage home here in Dakar Senegal as a result of the civil war that was fought in my country some years ago , i was born on Tuesday , the 22nd day of March , 1988 , twenty-three ( 23 ) years old , single and never married , 5ft 8 inches tall , 55kg weight , black hair and brown eyes . My hobbies include , reading , cooking , dancing , taking care of people , sharing problems with others and find solution to the problems , going to beach with my friends and other social things that used to keep someone happy . I love singing , watching television , studying the bible , i am respectful , honest , etc , i hate lies , dishonest people , promise and fail , taking others for granted , disobeying God , etc .

I am the only daughter to Dr/Mrs Dukson Weah , i lost my both parents during this deadly political war that damaged thousands of innocent souls in Liberia . My family was among the first target of the rebels because my late father was an international successful businessman and also a politician supporting the present government when the problems was about to start . My mother was a government nurse , working in my country capital ( Monrovia ) .

Due to this all the members of my family was murdered in a cold blood and our family house was set blazed . I was lucky and survived by the mercy of God Almighty . I escaped death because i was in bordering when this deadly incident took place . It is only myself who is alive now and i managed to make my way to a nearby country , Senegal , where i am staying now and never pray or think to step my legs in that bloody country called LIBERIA . I am hoping for a day i will be totally free from the pains and shackles of life . I have encountered pain and suffering ever since i lost my parents but i know that someday i will wear a smile on my face again .

I have much to tell you . However i want to know if you are willing and ready to help me smile again . To help me become somebody in the society . To give me a better life . Something has been bothering me and i have kept it to myself because i am afraid to disclose it to anyone . I am afraid of betrayal . I am afraid someone might take advantage of me if i should disclose it to anyone .

I have been praying to God to give me someone who will not betray my trust and confidence in him . Someone who will not cheat and deceive me . I am very much afraid . But if you will promise me that you will stand for me as a guardian , a friend indeed , good Samaritan then i will open up to you .

I would like to know more about you , your real name , your likes and dislikes , your hobbies , and what you are doing presently . I will tell you more about myself in my next mail . Below is my picture and i wait to receive your mail with your picture ( s ) . I pray to God to guide and protect you in all you are doing . Have a wonderful moment .

Yours in love ,

Miss Vivian Dukson Weah

I feel this is very strange, and I began to suspect. Then I searched the name "Dukson Weah" on the internet. I was surprised to find article from circleofmoms. You can see the article by cliking here. You will see the email that is shown there is similar.

By this article, I suggest to be more careful in people who are known through the virtual world. Do not easily trust someone, and you should find out the people who contact you by ask another, or searching on the internet like I did.

Thanks for reading this article, if this article helpful, share it to someone. Do not forget to thinking smarter.

5 Ways to Satisfy The Male Ego

You've heard it, that women speak three times more than men. However, if all the sentences of you did is something he wants to hear?

When you chatting intimately with the man that you love, or even her husband of five years of marriage with you, make sure you just say a sentence or comments that mattered to him. If you do the following, we can be sure his ego will always be satisfied.

1. Always enthusiastic when listening to him talk
Every person naturally wants his life to be interesting. Therefore, when talking to the guy you like, do not let you cut him off, change the subject, or wiggle your feet as a sign of boredom. Give the comments that made him know that you sincerely want to know him further.

2. Praise
You must have watched a man who feels very meaningful when finally promoted at work, or successfully address the problem on his computer without the help of information technology staff. Whatever he does, if by chance you know, do not hesitate to satisfy his ego by praising his efforts.

3. Give awards
Speech is very simple, but sometimes forgotten. Just because you felt it was close to him, then you consider what it does is as it should (so no need to be appreciated). Say thank you if he will praise your appearance when attending a friend's wedding reception together. Say thank you when he buy you dinner. Thank you so much lead up to the house safely. Thus He will feel very appreciated.

4. Ask his hobbies and his dreams
Fun job, position is important, of course is the pride of a man. Especially if he has many other interests outside of work life. Whether he liked tinkering with cars, playing guitar, has a side business, or photography. Try to find out what the passion of a man, who had not previously been revealed. You will get a full picture of himself as a person, and not just what he did to earn money. And he will be happy to share the deepest dreams.

5. Make him feel always needed
As a single woman, you may be accustomed to doing everything yourself. But remember once again, men want to always feel needed. So the opportunity to give an opinion or support for women who loved him will be very meaningful. Therefore, even though you actually get used to own, ask your opinion for each activity. Avoid asking about the color of clothes that suit you, whom his exgirlfriend, or to be more to know about the things under their control.